The F-WORDs ? Why does your mind immediately go there? That’s not what I meant at all… What I meant was: F-hilosophies or beliefs I’m willing to stand for in the coming year…
FUN
Firstly, I stand by the concept of Fun. We need to keep fun in our hectic, harried, heated lives. I take this cue I’ve learned from my eldest daughter, Jessica. Despite her many challenges, she always finds a way to embrace fun and laughter. Her resilience and joy in life are truly inspiring. I’ve made a vow to follow her lead and keep fun and laughter in my life, just like Jess.
FAMILY
Secondly, and fundamentally, is Family. The notion of Family and friends that I choose as Family appears like a gimme. Yet, I want to have it in writing—I will always stand by my Family and friends this year and each year after. Regardless of their politics, most of us are on the same page. Regardless of the quirks—Ooops, that may be what they are saying about me—Regardless of the disagreements and SOOO many opinions , all of that just keeps it interesting.
Freedom 🗽
F-word number three is Freedom. It seems straightforward, doesn’t it? However, freedom can be a complex and sometimes challenging concept. Freedom of choice, opinion, religion, speech, the press, and even personal identity—these are all essential and valued rights that I will stand for this year.
That said, freedom also brings personal dilemmas. For instance, I wrestle with the topic of gun ownership. Some of our friends have obtained permits, and some carry firearms even in places of worship. This particular aspect of freedom leaves me feeling uncertain, conflicted, and a bit flustered .
H-Words
Fortunately for you, I am done with my F-words, and we can move on to H-words. Happy Holidays, my cherished readers! May you all have health, happiness, and humor today, tomorrow, and in the years to come.
Anonymous 
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