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Princess Diana, King Charles, and Me

I was a Princess Diana Fan. Wasn’t everybody? I wasn’t much of a Prince Charles (now known as His Majesty the King) fanatic at the time.  Diana and…

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SALE ·

Signed Copy – FREE FEBRUARY GIVEAWAY

TODAY ONLY! Get a signed copy of Raising Jess A Story of Hope by Vickie Rubin for FREE. I will pick three winners by Friday! Fill in entry…

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Parenting ·

Letting Go: The Group Home Decision

This is our group home story. A decision woven with uncertainty, love, and, ultimately, acceptance. Was the group home decision also a decision of Letting Go? These are…

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2024

A blank slate to start- as we enter 2024A metaphorical closing of 2023’s doorWhat are our hopes and dreams for this yearOf course, Health, Happiness and Peace –…

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Family ·

Club Cuisine Crisis: Eating Interruptus

Crisis, also known as Eating Interruptus. Plus, a Cool Bill's Story! #RaisingJess #Eating #Humor #Blog #BuffaloBills #Football

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Happy Anniversary, Mitch

Happy Anniversary, Mitch. Today, December 1, 2023, is our 44th wedding anniversary. Mitch and I were married in 1979. I remember when our parents were married for 25…

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Parenting a child with a Disability ·

RV Trip Part Two, Fun Facts and a Surprise Ending

OK, now that we got all the repairs, hospital visits, and other nonsense from my last blog out of the way, I want to let you know about the…

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Parenting a child with a Disability ·

My First Pair of Fancy Shoes- Thanks, Mom

I know, I know, I have talked about purses in my blog. Yes, it’s shallow but still fun, right? However, I never spoke about My First Pair of…

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Travel ·

The Beginning of the RV End: I Want to Go Home!

I admit that I was ready to abandon our trip four times before finally convincing my husband, Mitch. MAYDAY! When pushed to a point, I can be very…

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I Stand with Israel

We are on an RV trip, so many weird, funny, not-so-funny, and beautiful events have happened. Yet, I can’t write.  Every time I put pen to paper, oh…

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Mother ·

Music Therapy Becomes A Love Language

Music is our daughter Jessica’s love language. She speaks it fluently. Jess is 41 years old, nonverbal, and has a rare genetic deletion (1Q 43-44). She lives in…

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A Seinfeld Moment

We are happy to have my in-laws staying with us. There's only one small problem: A Seinfeld Moment. Do you remember the episode when Jerry and Elaine visited…

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Thank You Randy

Dear Vickala

Dear Vickala, a letter to high-school Vickie- Life will throw curveballs. Laugh, find joy, and understand the power of love and humor. 

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Never Have I Ever…

My dad's car service waited for me as I exited the airport. Am I being kidnapped? Where am I really going? Never Have I Ever…. #RaisingJess #Limo #Dad…

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A Mother’s Journey of Hope and Advocacy

University of Miami Alumni - In a world where compassion can make all the difference, alumna Vickie Rubin is a ray of hope for families raising children w/…

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Hobby or Work: He Says/She Says

Is this an insult or an opinion? The big question in our house is whether my writing is hobby or work. Its a big He Says/She Says.

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Inclusion for Jess: After 21

Inclusion for Jess in public school - What was it all for? Jess needed a change- She started a new program last week - And we have Hope…

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